Thanks for the information.
The burial records do not give ages.
Worked out that Robert born North Cadbury was baptized in Jun 1753 and died Nov 1781 making him 28 Years old?
Robert born in Stoke Sub Hamdon baptized in Jan 1763 and died Jun 1781 making him 18 Years old?
As the marriage was in 1776 i am thinking that would eliminate the one who was 18 when he died.
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